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A “Peace” of my Sunday

February 17, 2009 by Elaine

I had to cantor at the 8 a.m. mass a few Sunday mornings ago. (For those of you who aren’t Catholic, that simply means I led the congregation in the music for the mass.)

I have a love/hate relationship with singing at this time because I have to get up quite early to get there, but then when it’s over, I have my whole day ahead. And, I’m all “prettied up” to boot!
That morning all was quiet as I got ready for church.
I left the house with all my boys still asleep.
As I pulled out of the garage at 7:30 a.m. I was simply engulfed in quiet, for once in my life.
I turned the radio volume to “0” and drove, listening only to my own breath and the sound of the car.
I drove through our neighborhood without passing even one other car. I thought about all the people, still asleep in their beds as I looked at the houses I drove past.
I then thought about ALL the people still snuggled up in their beds, asleep in the entire state of Texas and our country.
And even if they were awake, perhaps they were just making their coffee, reading the paper, or possibly their bible.
I contemplated how Sunday morning is still the quietest time in our part of the world (as it should be.)
I felt so peaceful and it was SO very nice.
I will continue to cantor at the earliest mass because well, it’s one of the few times in my life that I get a little peace. And we can all use a little bit of that once and a while…
Tell me, where or when do you find your peace?

(photo taken by me at Mustang Island, TX August 2008)

elaine

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Comments

  1. Controlling My Chaos says

    February 17, 2009 at 5:28 am

    My peace comes when the monsters are in bed. Some days I live for that. 🙂

  2. Christy M. says

    February 17, 2009 at 6:07 am

    Beautiful post, Elaine!

    My peace comes at night when my kiddos are tucked snuggly in their beds. No tv, no phone, no noise. When it’s warm, I like to sit on the front porch and enjoy the sound of the river flowing in the distance. That is peaceful.

  3. Jenny says

    February 17, 2009 at 10:48 am

    That is a fantastic post!

    I love that time on a Sunday morning. The roads seem so empty.

    Here they have Sunrise Easter Mass at the beach. We go every year. It stinks to get up that early, but as the sun comes up (usually during the Gospel) it is all worth it!

  4. ♥ spoiled mommy ♥ says

    February 17, 2009 at 12:25 pm

    My peace is alone in my car as well, I love it! I also make myself get up at 5:45 just to have my alone time before they all wake up..its very peaceful knowing they are all safe and asleep in their beds.
    Gorgeous picture!

  5. Natalie says

    February 17, 2009 at 1:46 pm

    I love my alone time in the mornings. The hubby has left for work, the kids are still asleep. It’s just me & my coffee.
    My other favorite moment is when we’re at the lake in the summer. There’s nothing like a sunrise or sunset over water.

  6. Lisa@verybusymomwith4 says

    February 17, 2009 at 2:10 pm

    Very early in the morning before anyone wakes up–I do my bible study. Total peace.

  7. jill jill bo bill says

    February 17, 2009 at 3:09 pm

    That is just beautiful! I do the same thing, just drive with no music and think and pray. I love that alone time I have.

  8. Jenni Jiggety says

    February 17, 2009 at 3:19 pm

    I need more peace…I don’t get enough!

  9. Jaimee says

    February 17, 2009 at 3:21 pm

    Beautiful post, Elaine. I love driving in the car by myself…especially with the radio OFF!!!

  10. Tiaras and Tantrums says

    February 17, 2009 at 3:38 pm

    lovely – just lovely and to answer you query – I could almost laugh – there is no peaceful time in my life right now

  11. Mommy Mo says

    February 17, 2009 at 3:39 pm

    For me, it’s in the car, with no children, no radio, no cell phone calls. After the kids are in bed, I’m still distracted by watching TV or cleaning or blog surfing, etc. That is NOT peaceful time for me. I need to shut my brain down at least once a day and unfortuntely, it doesn’t happen often enough.

  12. Kat says

    February 17, 2009 at 3:51 pm

    Okay, who the hell (with kids) gets to sleep until 7:30? Cuz I’m gonna kick their a$$! 😉
    I do cherish driving in my car by myself. Though I can’t remember the last time I actually got to do that. It is so peaceful.
    I also LOVE naptime. SO PEACEFUL!

  13. Kami says

    February 17, 2009 at 4:11 pm

    I am Catholic but didn’t know that term, of course, maybe if I actually attended mass once in awhile….

    That picture is gorgeous! My peace is once the kids go to bed each night and Jay and I can do our own thing 😉

  14. lmt1073 says

    February 17, 2009 at 4:38 pm

    That’s a beautiful pic… I love the beach… it’s my serenity…

  15. Shauna says

    February 17, 2009 at 5:41 pm

    I’m new here! What a great blog 🙂

  16. Krystyn says

    February 17, 2009 at 5:44 pm

    I definitely think my peace is on the weekend…it is to chaotic during the week.

    This was so beautifully written. Thanks for sharing.

  17. Brittany says

    February 17, 2009 at 6:02 pm

    How wonderful. Peacefulness is certainly lovely, and I am ever so grateful when God bestows that upon me.

    I used to teach Sunday school (pre-kids), during the early service. I always went to church alone, and Andy would come second service, so that we could attend the service together. I remember those mornings! I used to drive in silence, too. I’d pray, and hum to myself. It really was a peaceful time!

    NOW- I live for Bible Study night. It’s the one time I get to drive alone- guaranteed, every week! I love it. I always drive in silence. mm… So glad that is happening…TONIGHT! 🙂

  18. Sparkette says

    February 17, 2009 at 6:44 pm

    That was nice. I enjoyed reading that.

    Most recently I can really only find that nice quiet peace when I am just waking up in Wisconsin…looking out at the sun and just taking it in for a couple of minutes before I get up and face the day.

  19. nicole says

    February 17, 2009 at 6:57 pm

    I love it when everyone is asleep but me and I can curl up with a book and just listen to the sounds of my house. Ideally it is a rainy, cool day and this quietness occurs during naptime. I truly love that time.

  20. Burgh Baby says

    February 17, 2009 at 7:13 pm

    I find mine late at night after everyone else has gone to bed. A little bit of peace and quiet is worth missing out on a bit of sleep.

  21. Christina says

    February 17, 2009 at 7:33 pm

    such a lovely, peaceful moment. Yes, we all need that peace – and it’s worth missing sleep by staying up late or getting up early to find it!

    Gorgeous picture, really so beautiful and perfectly peaceful.

  22. Haley says

    February 17, 2009 at 7:48 pm

    What a beautiful poetic post Elaine! 🙂

    I find peace in a hot bath late at night after Jackson is in bed, it’s a good way to let the stress of the day out.

  23. A Crafty Mom says

    February 18, 2009 at 12:23 am

    That’s great, Elaine!!

    This may sound crazy, but I often find peace in the middle of the night when I am nursing the baby. The house, the world, is so quiet and it is just she and I together. All I can hear is her breathing, it’s so soothing and peaceful.

  24. Angella says

    February 18, 2009 at 12:24 am

    This was beautiful!

    I find my peace early in the morning before everyone else wakes up…

  25. forever folding laundry says

    February 18, 2009 at 1:09 am

    Those moments of peace are so precious, are they not?

    Lovely photo.

  26. Threeboys1mommy says

    February 18, 2009 at 7:27 am

    Ugh Lainey, my mom made us go to 7 am mass I hated it!… but there was always some IHOP in the deal, so that was awesome.

    This was a beautiful post, Lainey wonder why you’re so pensive… hmm… what could it be…

  27. Reluctant Housewife says

    February 22, 2009 at 2:53 pm

    Rare moments of quiet are so nice. I don’t come by them very often.

    Beautiful photo!

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Hi! I'm Elaine, a transplanted Texan who has spent almost 15 years living in Cajun country. I am re-married to Brandon and we have five kids: together, ages 19, 16, 16, 14 and 14 and crazy but lovely dog, Charlie. I am also an office manager, occasional writer, prayer, and lover of life! Find me on Instagram (misselaine0375) and contact me at misselaineous0375 (at) gmail (dot) com.

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